For Denver videographer Cindy Ball a favorite memory of spending Valentine’s Day with her mother was seeing the pleasure on her face as a barbershop quartet serenaded her.
Cindy sent her first Sound of the Rockies Singing Valentine to her mother, who was living in a Westminster assisted living residence, in 2016 and continued the tradition until her mother’s passing two years ago.
“It was such a terrific idea, something different from the usual flowers and chocolate,” said Cindy. “As my mom got older, her memory began to fail and music became more important to her,” Cindy said. “It was something she really enjoyed and something that her friends and neighbors at her assisted living community could benefit from as well.”
As much as Cindy Ball and her mother loved sending and receiving Singing Valentines over the years, the quartets who deliver them are just as enthusiastic. Ask just about any participating quartet singer and they will tell you Valentine’s Day is one of their favorite days of the year.
Tony Pranaitis, a chiropractor by day and a bass with Sound of the Rockies by night, has been delivering Singing Valentines for two decades and couldn’t imagine a better way to spend the day.
“I really enjoy the joy it brings to people’s lives,” Tony said. “We always have fun singing together in the quartet, but this is one of the few times we have the opportunity to sing directly to individuals and see their reaction.”
Each year Sound, of the Rockies in collaboration with Denver MountainAires and Colorado Chord Company, sends 10 quartets to deliver about 100 Singing Valentines throughout the Denver area, from Boulder to Castle Rock and Evergreen to Aurora. It’s an all-day affair, starting at 10 a.m. and ending after 8 p.m. Along with two love songs performed in barbershop harmony, recipients receive a rose and card for $60.
To the quartet singers, it’s a labor of love. All proceeds go back to the chorus, helping to fund rehearsals, performances, competitions and community initiatives. It’s also a highly organized endeavor that is committed to performance excellence. Each participating quartet is required to try out and be approved for Singing Valentines by a certified judge with the Barbershop Harmony Society, the umbrella organization for some 80,000 barbershop singers, quartets and choruses worldwide.
“People are very moved by this expression of love from their significant other,” said Michael Kennedy, who also sings bass and has been delivering Singing Valentines for about seven years.
Quartets deliver valentines, to private homes, offices, hospitals, college campuses — just about anywhere — to sweethearts of all ages.
Over the years both Tony and Michael say they have been honored to witness incredible moments of love.
For Michael, one such moment was when his quartet Continuum, delivered a Singing Valentine from a husband to his bed-ridden wife. To the quartet, it seemed likely that this was the couple’s last Valentine’s Day together. “They were probably in their 80s and clearly the wife was very sick. They were so devoted to each other. The husband sat by his wife as we sang, and both were very appreciative. It made us feel good to be able to do something positive for them during what was probably a very difficult time.”
A highlight for Michael was also to be in a quartet that delivered a Singing Valentine to Cindy Ball’s mother and later perform at her 95th birthday celebration.
One of Tony Pranaitis’ favorite memories is when his quartet sang backup for a man who wanted to deliver a Singing Valentine to his girlfriend at a restaurant with family and friends looking on. Afterward, the man proposed to his sweetheart. It was a very happy occasion — one that Tony feels fortunate to have been part of.
Another was delivering a father’s valentine to his adult daughter. “When she came to the door and we told her who we were, she just froze and started crying.” The woman’s husband explained that her father was in failing health and the two had been estranged. “This was his way of trying to mend the relationship and show his daughter how much he loved her. You could tell it was very meaningful for her,” Tony explained.
Both Tony and Michael are convinced that they get as much out of delivering Singing Valentines as those who receive them — if not more.
“You know what they say: ‘It’s more blessed to give than to receive,’” Tony concluded.
That may be the case. But if you want to make this Valentine’s Day special for someone you love, it’s not too late to order a Sound of the Rockies Singing Valentine.